MOTHERHOOD

I’m really “in my feelings” as this Mother’s Day approaches because I feel I’ve done the MOST WORK this year. My son is the busiest and the most opinionated he’s ever been. He’s the most expensive, and he also has a life and schedule of his own now. Being celebrated on Mother’s Day is something most moms deserve, but this time around - I know for a fact that I deserve it. I’ve put a lot of work into him and myself between now and last May. As my responsibilities heighten in my own world of parenthood it leads me to more admiration for my mother. My love for her extends each year as I gain more awareness of what it is to be a mom.

At this stage, there is a lot of repetition and creating routines. These boundaries not only hold my son accountable, but myself as well. Lately, I’ve been a little more gentle with us both in regards to skipping a night of story time if the energy isn’t there. This morning we were a little late getting him to school. He was eating his waffles so calmly and he looked at peace. I didn’t want to rush him through his meal or interrupt his moment so I waited. That’s where we are right now - wedged in between structure and his own personal needs.

I really enjoyed this Vogue video with Kehlani because she also speaks to how linear her growth is to her child. I just thought it would be nice to share with you all. Happy Early Mothers Day. <3